the chinese new year holidays are finally over….wat a boring new year…deardear owiz has to go back to m’sia, 把我一个人留在这里 to face the boredom…will seriously consider going travelling during CNY from nxt yr onwards,避一避年。。。
the end of CNY oso marks the end of my absolute-slacking so far dis semester…gotta get started on assignments liao, have about 8 assignments due end of march..if i don get started, will 死得很难看 by that time…
tmr is a holiday again.. (>_<) lessons cancelled…and frankly speaking, i don appreciate dis holiday..have had enough holidays dis sem (wa, 1st time c me complain about having holidays huh)! the on & off holidays keep disrupting my momentum to do wrk u c… i don have much self-discipline in dis area..
but ironically, i need the holiday tmr, cos dear is finally back from hmetown! haven’t seen him for 6days.. altho we still tok on the phone many times a day when he’s in m’sia, but it is just different…as in, i need my ‘anata’ to be 在我身边。so i owiz say i’m definitely not the kind who can maintain a long-distance relationship. when i mean long-distance relationship, i don mean my case la (dear only goes back afew days each time), wat i mean is those who 长期 separated from their partners bcoz of work, or wateva..
想起一位朋友说过的话：如果因为distant relationship 而让你和爱人的感情变淡，或者，你们的感情经不起空间的考验，那代表你不够爱对方。
在读我的部落格的朋友们，你们同意以上的看法吗？
我其实不太同意那位朋友的话。。只是当时没有反驳他。。我觉得感情经不经得起空间的考验，并不在于你够不够爱对方。to me, itz just a matter of personalities.. or beliefs… or… aiya, i dunno hw to put it in words la…. 两个人在一起，不是应该共同分享与分担吗？快乐时，想找最亲的人分享喜悦，他/她不在。。。心情低落时，想找个肩膀靠一靠、想要个温暖的拥抱，他/她也不在。。。虽然现今科技发达，有电话、有webcam，不过真正的接触与virtual接触是完全不同的啊！如果不能彼此分享与分担，那，两个人的感情到底建立在什么之上呢？精神？哈哈。。或许吧， 不过，if dis is reli the case，then i’m sure 我还未达到这样的境界！
不知不觉又哈啦了那么多。。。
